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	<title>Comments on: Advice From Parents as Teachers</title>
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		<title>By: george</title>
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		<dc:creator>george</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Ray Four kids, and you applied the same parenting skill set the same way to each child?  No differences in feeding, temperament, intellectual and motor skills between them?  No difference in your response to each child?  Surprisingly, most parents with multiple children talk about the differences among them and the new things they learned each time, both about their child and about themselves.  Guess you might be the exception, or perhaps it&#039;s just that we don&#039;t always notice when we&#039;re learning.  As far as the kids turning out all right, it is rather remarkable how well children can thrive despite the odds.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Ray Four kids, and you applied the same parenting skill set the same way to each child?  No differences in feeding, temperament, intellectual and motor skills between them?  No difference in your response to each child?  Surprisingly, most parents with multiple children talk about the differences among them and the new things they learned each time, both about their child and about themselves.  Guess you might be the exception, or perhaps it&#8217;s just that we don&#8217;t always notice when we&#8217;re learning.  As far as the kids turning out all right, it is rather remarkable how well children can thrive despite the odds.</p>
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		<title>By: Public Programs Should Substantiate Claims About Child Development &#124; www.statehousecall.org</title>
		<link>http://www.showmedaily.org/2010/03/advice-from-parents-as.html/comment-page-1#comment-5844</link>
		<dc:creator>Public Programs Should Substantiate Claims About Child Development &#124; www.statehousecall.org</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 16:39:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Last week, I blogged about some advice a Parents as Teachers participant received from a program representative. She says she was told that she “needed” to read to her unborn child every day, and that it was important to read the exact same book each time. I criticized this advice as lacking a scientific basis; in addition, it’s liable to provoke anxiety or unrealistic expectations in parents. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Last week, I blogged about some advice a Parents as Teachers participant received from a program representative. She says she was told that she “needed” to read to her unborn child every day, and that it was important to read the exact same book each time. I criticized this advice as lacking a scientific basis; in addition, it’s liable to provoke anxiety or unrealistic expectations in parents. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Gerard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gerard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ray,

The great thing is that the big bad government isn&#039;t FORCING you to sit and meet with a PAT educator. It&#039;s OPTIONAL. Why can&#039;t people fathom that what they might not need may be essential for someone else?!?!? It&#039;s twisted thinking that says, &quot;I won&#039;t pay for anything that doesn&#039;t serve me.&quot; The same people think that their elected representative was elected to serve ONLY them. It&#039;s a difficult logic to respect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray,</p>
<p>The great thing is that the big bad government isn&#8217;t FORCING you to sit and meet with a PAT educator. It&#8217;s OPTIONAL. Why can&#8217;t people fathom that what they might not need may be essential for someone else?!?!? It&#8217;s twisted thinking that says, &#8220;I won&#8217;t pay for anything that doesn&#8217;t serve me.&#8221; The same people think that their elected representative was elected to serve ONLY them. It&#8217;s a difficult logic to respect.</p>
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		<title>By: DaveG</title>
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		<dc:creator>DaveG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t understand the repeated attacks of PAT on this site.

The referenced blogger was unable to sleep and overwhelmed by the amount of information given in the two hour class, not specifically on the tidbit on repetition.  Then at the end of the post she admits:

&quot;And all of that was in 2 hours. Maybe that&#039;s why I can&#039;t sleep...maybe my brain is still overloaded. Nope, I think it&#039;s because I&#039;m so uncomfortable and the little man apparently can&#039;t figure out a comfy position &#039;cause he&#039;s all over the place and HURTING my right ribs in the process!&quot;

I can understand why people complain about the press taking their quotes out of context...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t understand the repeated attacks of PAT on this site.</p>
<p>The referenced blogger was unable to sleep and overwhelmed by the amount of information given in the two hour class, not specifically on the tidbit on repetition.  Then at the end of the post she admits:</p>
<p>&#8220;And all of that was in 2 hours. Maybe that&#8217;s why I can&#8217;t sleep&#8230;maybe my brain is still overloaded. Nope, I think it&#8217;s because I&#8217;m so uncomfortable and the little man apparently can&#8217;t figure out a comfy position &#8217;cause he&#8217;s all over the place and HURTING my right ribs in the process!&#8221;</p>
<p>I can understand why people complain about the press taking their quotes out of context&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Eapen Thampy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eapen Thampy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah, all I have to do is win that PAT teachers are sufficiently trained. They may be laypeople or volunteers of some nature but it appears the training is effective and incorporates the latest in data-based child rearing. It also appears PAT has a fairly robust and viable method to ensure that their training is effective, even if short. You present literally no evidence that these people are any less than qualified.

I also answered your argument earlier which I don&#039;t think you read, so I&#039;ll copy and paste just so it&#039;s obvious:
The third problem is that you’re ascribing an entire position to this educator on the basis of an non-comprehensive blog post. While it appears to be the case that this educator probably says “read the same book as often as possible to your child” it’s not fair to conclude that the educator doesn’t endorse “sing the same song to your child every day, or talk to him/her frequently, and yes these are acceptable substitutes for reading a book”. 

You also don&#039;t grasp the logical gains to scale from repetition itself, so I could probably defend that the science implies that the reading the same book strategy is probably part of an optimal strategy for cognitive development.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah, all I have to do is win that PAT teachers are sufficiently trained. They may be laypeople or volunteers of some nature but it appears the training is effective and incorporates the latest in data-based child rearing. It also appears PAT has a fairly robust and viable method to ensure that their training is effective, even if short. You present literally no evidence that these people are any less than qualified.</p>
<p>I also answered your argument earlier which I don&#8217;t think you read, so I&#8217;ll copy and paste just so it&#8217;s obvious:<br />
The third problem is that you’re ascribing an entire position to this educator on the basis of an non-comprehensive blog post. While it appears to be the case that this educator probably says “read the same book as often as possible to your child” it’s not fair to conclude that the educator doesn’t endorse “sing the same song to your child every day, or talk to him/her frequently, and yes these are acceptable substitutes for reading a book”. </p>
<p>You also don&#8217;t grasp the logical gains to scale from repetition itself, so I could probably defend that the science implies that the reading the same book strategy is probably part of an optimal strategy for cognitive development.</p>
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		<title>By: Papillon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Papillon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do not believe that corporal punishment is lawful (or least at a prosecutor&#039;s discretion) so I would not want one part of the gov saying one thing and another saying something else.  I would have no problem with people saying, &#039;here is what works for me&#039; or this is what [insert public or private group that advocates for children, yes, a choice must be made] says is effective.  You will rarely get unanimous agreement on anything.  

During the pre-birth classes I attended (which were subsidized by someone as they were free), there was a video showing the terrible effects of &#039;shaken baby syndrome&#039;.  I didn&#039;t think to say &#039;hey, this is only a theory.  How about showing babies who were shaken and everything turned out ok?&#039;  The presenters of the class had a bias against shaking a child, and I am totally ok with that, regardless of whether the program was subsidized by the gov.  

The government subsidizes/teaches lifestyles/philosophies all the time, from vaccinations, one woman-one man marriage (certainly not polygamous marriage anywhere), racial equality (I also wait for the day when people advocate to &#039;teach the controversy&#039; in both evolution and race-based slavery, not), home ownership and even condoms, and their non-pregnancy/non-std uses, in some places.  

Maybe Parents as Teachers is low hanging fruit, but I just don&#039;t see a significant, if any, injustice to the parents or the children.  There may not be enough upside to justify the cost to the taxpayer, I don&#039;t know.  That seems to be part of what you are saying, and I may agree, but I don&#039;t agree with, &#039;Parents as Teachers is teaching biases/opinions/theories, and those things have no place being funded by the gov.&#039;  I am on a different side of that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do not believe that corporal punishment is lawful (or least at a prosecutor&#8217;s discretion) so I would not want one part of the gov saying one thing and another saying something else.  I would have no problem with people saying, &#8216;here is what works for me&#8217; or this is what [insert public or private group that advocates for children, yes, a choice must be made] says is effective.  You will rarely get unanimous agreement on anything.  </p>
<p>During the pre-birth classes I attended (which were subsidized by someone as they were free), there was a video showing the terrible effects of &#8217;shaken baby syndrome&#8217;.  I didn&#8217;t think to say &#8216;hey, this is only a theory.  How about showing babies who were shaken and everything turned out ok?&#8217;  The presenters of the class had a bias against shaking a child, and I am totally ok with that, regardless of whether the program was subsidized by the gov.  </p>
<p>The government subsidizes/teaches lifestyles/philosophies all the time, from vaccinations, one woman-one man marriage (certainly not polygamous marriage anywhere), racial equality (I also wait for the day when people advocate to &#8216;teach the controversy&#8217; in both evolution and race-based slavery, not), home ownership and even condoms, and their non-pregnancy/non-std uses, in some places.  </p>
<p>Maybe Parents as Teachers is low hanging fruit, but I just don&#8217;t see a significant, if any, injustice to the parents or the children.  There may not be enough upside to justify the cost to the taxpayer, I don&#8217;t know.  That seems to be part of what you are saying, and I may agree, but I don&#8217;t agree with, &#8216;Parents as Teachers is teaching biases/opinions/theories, and those things have no place being funded by the gov.&#8217;  I am on a different side of that.</p>
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		<title>By: ray</title>
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		<dc:creator>ray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:01:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve commented before about PAT, a program I just cannot fathom. I never wanted anyone else telling me what to do with my four babies. And they grew up just fine. We read to them, not because someone told us it was &quot;good for them,&quot; but because it was darned fun. We sang for the same reason. And when they cried, we loved them, and made it all better. Made them good food and taught them how to be nice to others.

And all this without a PAT person telling us or &quot;encouraging&quot; us.

And to Kevin: Sarah is not betraying ignorance; she is responding to what a PAT participant wrote on her blog. Maybe that PAT parent is ignorant.

One of Sarah&#039;s previous posts addressed a mom who was obviously doing PAT for a third child. Again, I can&#039;t understand why the lessons with the first child don&#039;t carry over to a third. Which makes me think there&#039;s some other reason that people do PAT - it&#039;s not for &quot;education.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve commented before about PAT, a program I just cannot fathom. I never wanted anyone else telling me what to do with my four babies. And they grew up just fine. We read to them, not because someone told us it was &#8220;good for them,&#8221; but because it was darned fun. We sang for the same reason. And when they cried, we loved them, and made it all better. Made them good food and taught them how to be nice to others.</p>
<p>And all this without a PAT person telling us or &#8220;encouraging&#8221; us.</p>
<p>And to Kevin: Sarah is not betraying ignorance; she is responding to what a PAT participant wrote on her blog. Maybe that PAT parent is ignorant.</p>
<p>One of Sarah&#8217;s previous posts addressed a mom who was obviously doing PAT for a third child. Again, I can&#8217;t understand why the lessons with the first child don&#8217;t carry over to a third. Which makes me think there&#8217;s some other reason that people do PAT &#8211; it&#8217;s not for &#8220;education.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin Sargent</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin Sargent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 21:15:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah,

You once again betray your ignorance. Parents as Teachers educators DO NOT tell anyone that reading the same book every night to their fetus is required, or the only way to bond with your child. You are employing a straw-man argument to vilify a worthwhile program.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah,</p>
<p>You once again betray your ignorance. Parents as Teachers educators DO NOT tell anyone that reading the same book every night to their fetus is required, or the only way to bond with your child. You are employing a straw-man argument to vilify a worthwhile program.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Brodsky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Brodsky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the comments, everyone.

Eapen, given that Parents as Teachers educators are not required to hold degrees in child development or medicine--and that they are trained through very short seminars--I don&#039;t think we need to assume they are experts in those fields.

You&#039;re right that there is a consensus that it&#039;s beneficial to interact with fetuses. However, there is no consensus that the interaction has to consist of reading the same book every day. The study you link to addresses many different sounds, including music. This supports my point that there are multiple beneficial ways to interact with fetuses--such as talking or singing a song. I have not seen any study that finds reading one book to be the best way, and I would encourage you to link to that study if it exists.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comments, everyone.</p>
<p>Eapen, given that Parents as Teachers educators are not required to hold degrees in child development or medicine&#8211;and that they are trained through very short seminars&#8211;I don&#8217;t think we need to assume they are experts in those fields.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re right that there is a consensus that it&#8217;s beneficial to interact with fetuses. However, there is no consensus that the interaction has to consist of reading the same book every day. The study you link to addresses many different sounds, including music. This supports my point that there are multiple beneficial ways to interact with fetuses&#8211;such as talking or singing a song. I have not seen any study that finds reading one book to be the best way, and I would encourage you to link to that study if it exists.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin Sargent</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin Sargent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I find very disturbing about this is that the writer seems to have zero understanding of what Parents as Teachers does or how they help. I agree with much of what David said and in addition I&#039;ll say that our PAT meetings have been a big source of support for my family. We&#039;re not from Missouri and so have no family close and none of our friends have a baby. Being new parents is challenging and I can&#039;t imagine where we would be without PAT confirming that we&#039;re doing most things right, making us feel good about our family and helping us address the challenges of parenthood. THANK YOU Parents as Teachers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I find very disturbing about this is that the writer seems to have zero understanding of what Parents as Teachers does or how they help. I agree with much of what David said and in addition I&#8217;ll say that our PAT meetings have been a big source of support for my family. We&#8217;re not from Missouri and so have no family close and none of our friends have a baby. Being new parents is challenging and I can&#8217;t imagine where we would be without PAT confirming that we&#8217;re doing most things right, making us feel good about our family and helping us address the challenges of parenthood. THANK YOU Parents as Teachers!</p>
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		<title>By: Miriam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miriam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:56:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can&#039;t believe you&#039;re quoting a blogger and then running with it. Do you actually think that Parents as Teachers really told parents anything more than they should try to read to their children often and it may be helpful to read the same book? You&#039;re paranoid. I mean, how else to describe someone who gets up-in-arms about the big bad government telling someone its good to read to children. Those bastards! I mean, it should be up to each individual, God-Freedom-American-loving parent to decide if reading to children is good. Am I overstating your words. Yes, but your concern is ridiculous and diminishes the incredible asset that is Parents as Teachers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can&#8217;t believe you&#8217;re quoting a blogger and then running with it. Do you actually think that Parents as Teachers really told parents anything more than they should try to read to their children often and it may be helpful to read the same book? You&#8217;re paranoid. I mean, how else to describe someone who gets up-in-arms about the big bad government telling someone its good to read to children. Those bastards! I mean, it should be up to each individual, God-Freedom-American-loving parent to decide if reading to children is good. Am I overstating your words. Yes, but your concern is ridiculous and diminishes the incredible asset that is Parents as Teachers.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 19:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah - 

Yawn! Do you really find it problematic &quot;any time the government endorses particular philosophies or lifestyles&quot;? The government does this everyday to own benefit (queue the list of things you think they don&#039;t do well) when they require a driver&#039;s license to operate a motor vehicle, when they require drinking water be clean and on and on and on and on. The opposite believe who say that government should set no standards and expound no expectations. Blah. Parents as Teachers is not some unbending &quot;you MUST raise your child THIS way&quot; group. Have you had a meeting with PaT? I have. My wife and I talked about our baby, what we thought was challenging, our expectations, etc. and the PaT rep offered options, things we hadn&#039;t thought of, things to try. While some ideologues are just SURE that everyone else is an ideologue (just on the other side), PaT is nothing like that. What&#039;s &quot;problematic&quot; to you is a lifesaver for my family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah &#8211; </p>
<p>Yawn! Do you really find it problematic &#8220;any time the government endorses particular philosophies or lifestyles&#8221;? The government does this everyday to own benefit (queue the list of things you think they don&#8217;t do well) when they require a driver&#8217;s license to operate a motor vehicle, when they require drinking water be clean and on and on and on and on. The opposite believe who say that government should set no standards and expound no expectations. Blah. Parents as Teachers is not some unbending &#8220;you MUST raise your child THIS way&#8221; group. Have you had a meeting with PaT? I have. My wife and I talked about our baby, what we thought was challenging, our expectations, etc. and the PaT rep offered options, things we hadn&#8217;t thought of, things to try. While some ideologues are just SURE that everyone else is an ideologue (just on the other side), PaT is nothing like that. What&#8217;s &#8220;problematic&#8221; to you is a lifesaver for my family.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Brodsky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Brodsky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 17:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the comment. Your analogy to parenting advice from the Bible is fascinating. What if Parents as Teachers used public funds to promote corporal punishment? Would that be okay because people might pick and choose, disregarding that advice just like they disregard it in the Bible?

Any time the government endorses particular philosophies or lifestyles, I find that to be problematic--even if, as you say, most people will take it with a grain of salt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the comment. Your analogy to parenting advice from the Bible is fascinating. What if Parents as Teachers used public funds to promote corporal punishment? Would that be okay because people might pick and choose, disregarding that advice just like they disregard it in the Bible?</p>
<p>Any time the government endorses particular philosophies or lifestyles, I find that to be problematic&#8211;even if, as you say, most people will take it with a grain of salt.</p>
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		<title>By: Papillon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Papillon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 16:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t think you are giving parents/people enough credit to sift through information and determine what works for them and what doesn&#039;t.  Most people know that child rearing strategies are guidelines, from where ever they come from, and should not be taken as gospel, regardless of who gives them.  Speaking of gospel, The /Bible, Word of God to believers, teaches corporal punishment.  Prov 29:15: &quot;The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame&quot; among other passages.  Yet, many (most?) Christians and Jews don&#039;t practice corporal punishment.  Hmm.

If many people are able to &#039;cafeteria&#039; their sacred texts, I believe that they can pick and choose from what &#039;official, state sponsored&#039; people tell them.  

It can be argued that Parents as Teachers is a waste of money (I never quite got around to participating) for a bunch of reasons, but I don&#039;t think that parents are unable to discern &#039;absolute musts&#039; from &#039;ideas worth trying&#039; is one of them.

As an aside, today it is virtually impossible to run tests on children these days due to informed consent requirements and such so proving, or disproving, anything about treatments/care given to them is really not feasible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t think you are giving parents/people enough credit to sift through information and determine what works for them and what doesn&#8217;t.  Most people know that child rearing strategies are guidelines, from where ever they come from, and should not be taken as gospel, regardless of who gives them.  Speaking of gospel, The /Bible, Word of God to believers, teaches corporal punishment.  Prov 29:15: &#8220;The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame&#8221; among other passages.  Yet, many (most?) Christians and Jews don&#8217;t practice corporal punishment.  Hmm.</p>
<p>If many people are able to &#8216;cafeteria&#8217; their sacred texts, I believe that they can pick and choose from what &#8216;official, state sponsored&#8217; people tell them.  </p>
<p>It can be argued that Parents as Teachers is a waste of money (I never quite got around to participating) for a bunch of reasons, but I don&#8217;t think that parents are unable to discern &#8216;absolute musts&#8217; from &#8216;ideas worth trying&#8217; is one of them.</p>
<p>As an aside, today it is virtually impossible to run tests on children these days due to informed consent requirements and such so proving, or disproving, anything about treatments/care given to them is really not feasible.</p>
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		<title>By: Eapen Thampy</title>
		<link>http://www.showmedaily.org/2010/03/advice-from-parents-as.html/comment-page-1#comment-5709</link>
		<dc:creator>Eapen Thampy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 12:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are several problems with this argument. The first is that we have to assume the presenter was an expert on infant development. It&#039;s implausible to believe a program like Parents as Teachers doesn&#039;t have guidelines on who can teach classes or present scientific or medical information. So yes, Sarah, this is basically someone&#039;s opinion; the problem is that you assume without any basis that the person is not an expert.

The second problem here is that you unfairly compare what is probably considered a parenting &quot;best practice&quot; (pre-natal reading with repetition) with what are probably parenting &quot;second best&quot; practices (reading, singing, conversing without repetition in a post-natal stage). We can think of parenting best practices in linear terms; best practices means things like pre-natal reading with repetition and second-best practices involve less focus. So yes, you&#039;re right. The bar for what is sufficient to ensure a functional child is probably not that high in terms of what the Parents as Teachers educator advocates. But the Parents as Teacher educator is not advocating simply what is sufficient and rather what is best.

The third problem is that you&#039;re ascribing an entire position to this educator on the basis of an non-comprehensive blog post. While it appears to be the case that this educator probably says &quot;read the same book as often as possible to your child&quot; it&#039;s not fair to conclude that the educator doesn&#039;t endorse &quot;sing the same song to your child every day, or talk to him/her frequently, and yes these are acceptable substitutes for reading a book&quot;. 

The fourth problem is probably the worst. It&#039;s that you&#039;re flat out wrong about the state of medical knowledge. There is a consensus and plenty of research out there that establishes the specific value of repetitive linguistic interaction with fetuses. This article is a good survey of the literature; though specific to prenatal music stimulation contains evidence that this is a field with much research: http://www.birthpsychology.com/lifebefore/sound1.html

There is of course some debate over specifics. But by and large your claims that these ideas have no scientific or research backing are spurious and might have been corrected with a quick google search.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are several problems with this argument. The first is that we have to assume the presenter was an expert on infant development. It&#8217;s implausible to believe a program like Parents as Teachers doesn&#8217;t have guidelines on who can teach classes or present scientific or medical information. So yes, Sarah, this is basically someone&#8217;s opinion; the problem is that you assume without any basis that the person is not an expert.</p>
<p>The second problem here is that you unfairly compare what is probably considered a parenting &#8220;best practice&#8221; (pre-natal reading with repetition) with what are probably parenting &#8220;second best&#8221; practices (reading, singing, conversing without repetition in a post-natal stage). We can think of parenting best practices in linear terms; best practices means things like pre-natal reading with repetition and second-best practices involve less focus. So yes, you&#8217;re right. The bar for what is sufficient to ensure a functional child is probably not that high in terms of what the Parents as Teachers educator advocates. But the Parents as Teacher educator is not advocating simply what is sufficient and rather what is best.</p>
<p>The third problem is that you&#8217;re ascribing an entire position to this educator on the basis of an non-comprehensive blog post. While it appears to be the case that this educator probably says &#8220;read the same book as often as possible to your child&#8221; it&#8217;s not fair to conclude that the educator doesn&#8217;t endorse &#8220;sing the same song to your child every day, or talk to him/her frequently, and yes these are acceptable substitutes for reading a book&#8221;. </p>
<p>The fourth problem is probably the worst. It&#8217;s that you&#8217;re flat out wrong about the state of medical knowledge. There is a consensus and plenty of research out there that establishes the specific value of repetitive linguistic interaction with fetuses. This article is a good survey of the literature; though specific to prenatal music stimulation contains evidence that this is a field with much research: <a href="http://www.birthpsychology.com/lifebefore/sound1.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.birthpsychology.com/lifebefore/sound1.html</a></p>
<p>There is of course some debate over specifics. But by and large your claims that these ideas have no scientific or research backing are spurious and might have been corrected with a quick google search.</p>
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